MONEY or L.O.V.E?


I might get disapproval from the girls who deny that they are “gold diggers”. Is finding a rich boyfriend every girl's dream? Deep down in every girl’s heart, they are looking for a man who they can depend on the rest of their lives. The ugly truth is that girls look for a rich boyfriend to survive in this competitive capitalist world. With a rich boyfriend, these girls can own as many GUCCI, PRADA and Louis Vuitton as they want! Sounds like the key way to success in girls’ lives is to find a rich boyfriend!




WAGS (Wives and Girlfriends for the high profile footballers in UK) is a good example of how these girls' lives changed since they became girlfriends of these filthy rich footballers. Coleen Rooney (wife of Wayne Rooney) and Cheryl Cole of Girls Aloud (Wife of Ashley Cole) are the prime examples of WAGS. Heather Mills, an ex model and an active charity campaigner proves that she can live like a Queen after she married Sir Paul McCartney. Her high profile divorce with Paul McCartney made her earn millions.



Zooming into the Asian celebrity scene, China's sweethearts – Zhang Ziyi and Michelle Reis are examples of celebrities dating rich older guys. After dating Hong Kong's wealthiest tycoon, Isabella Leong turned into the luckiest girl in Asia. Due to having a child with him she probably will never work another day for the rest of her life. From the above examples, we observe that most models and actresses date rich men. My question is: do modern girls date guys for money or L.O.V.E?




From my traveling experiences and being a model for quite a while, I discovered that most girls would rather choose a guy who can support them materially than L.O.V.E. Again this DOES NOT APPLY TO EVERY CASE. Deep down in every girl’s heart, finding a rich boyfriend to depend on is the easiest to settle the problems in their lives.






Should girls choose their boyfriends based on their bank accounts or the innate qualities of a guy? It is difficult to judge a person's character in a short period of time. However, by just looking at a person's bank account to determine whether you are going to spend the rest your of life with them is definitely shallow! From the past, we know that some beauty queens and top models will only marry filthy rich guys, and most high-profile marriages typically last for a maximum of 10 years. Is this an omen? A forewarning if you will?





I personally think girls should choose the quality of a man over the material assets of a man. I know that each person's opinion on characteristics of a man is totally subjective. However, it is essential to understand that compatibility with your loved one is of the utmost importance because this will determine your level of happiness for the entirety of your life! Happiness is definitely worth more than material value. A girl may be married to a guy who virtually owns Japan for the material benefits but if that same man is of low moral character his money can afford not only you but other girlfriends and mistresses as well. So girls, keep that in mind as you choose between a life of luxury, empty emotions and fake, shallow romance, or a life full of warm love from a man who will give you everything he owns and his heart to go along with it.



Thus my conclusion is: seeking a man for his wealth is equal to looking for a short-term husband or boyfriend who is not concerned for your long-term welfare. Girls should choose to maintain a long-term relationship with their life partner over a fleeting phase of escaping their temporary problems!



Stay tuned for the next installment: Why is rich daddy a sugar daddy anyway?


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